When you are in love or claim to be in love, sometime it hurts. Why? Because you are still getting to know that one special person and you just want to keep them to yourself. This is a selfish way of thinking and I realized that.

Love is when you and the other person have a good understanding about each other, it doesn't have to be perfect but well enough to tell when the other is sad or has something on their mind.
In most cases when something goes wrong all you want to do is hold that other person and hope they will hold you back. Sometimes you wish that they will just hug you instead of you hugging them.

Like what Farrah Fawcett once said, "God made woman beautiful and foolish; beautiful, that man might love her; and foolish, that she might love him"
Sometimes I feel like I fill the foolish role. When you fall in love you take a big risk, a risk that if you give that other person your heart, that they can easily break it.
It takes a lot of trust to give something that precious to someone else.
so girls give it way to easily to other guys and end up hurting themselves or setting themselves up for disappointment and pain but when you are very careful to give that to someone but not careful enough to guard it from being broken, it is always heard to fix a broken heart.
And those experiences stay with you for the rest of your life. The good thing is that you will learn from it but the bad thing is that it makes it that much harder to trust anyone else with it because they are afraid to get hurt again.

When you think about that one person you love and the possibility that you can lose them or they don't love you as much as you do then it gets you blood pumping in your heart and the waterfall in your eyes starts over flowing. Sometimes some people have a good reason to be afraid to lose someone so dear to them.
Too many experiences in the past that have scared their heart.

"Actions speak louder than words and words weigh more than actions"
You really can't live without either. Actions do speak louder than words. To a girl a simple touch or embrace means the world to her. Just because of that little simple touch, she knows that she is precious to you.
Words have a big impact on other people. Those who are fortunate enough to have a voice, take advantage of it especially when it comes to someone you love. Tell them how much you love them or how handsome/beautiful they are. Drown them with words of kindness. Don't be afraid to make each other blush and smile a little, it is a great feeling.

Communication.
I was always told that communication is the key ingredient in a relationship. And to be honest, it is.
If you and that one special person in your life have mini or big argument, it is always good to talk about it personally and privately. Not to drag your friends into it or other people in general when it is your problem as a couple to begin with.
Don't act immature about it and avoid the subject or not talk to each other because one or the other person doesn't want to admit that they are wrong.
When an argument or fight comes up, it is always good and healthy to talk about it between the two because 1) it allows you guys to see each other's point of view if handled right. 2) When everything is talked threw, you guys will get closer and stronger.

"Those who are patient will be rewarded"
The love of my life always tells me to be patient. I never understood why because I don't know what I was being patient for. Now I understand, all my patients will be reward one day. Because at the end it will all be worth it.

Finally "You Never Know What You Have Until You Lose It"
If you really love that one other person, don't take advantage of them because you never know what you have until you lose it.
Now-a-days it is hard to find another person who is willing to go through trials with you, to stay by your side though all the good times and the bad. If you have a person like that. Don't let them go, they are worth fighting for.